I love my wife. I really do. There’s just one problem.
She doesn’t get my jokes. Ever.
I got millions of ’em and they’re funny, I swear. Except to my wife. I have told jokes that have put entire rooms of people into stitches, but when I tell her I get nothing excepts crickets.
It’s not her fault though. You see, she is from Venezuela and simply hasn’t had the same experiences that I had growing up in the United States. So when I tell a joke about “hillbillies” for example, she has no clue as to why we might find it funny.
The same goes for slang. Everyone uses slang to some degree. Slang helps form our identity. I mean imagine
a Texan not using “y’all,” or a New Yorker not shouting “fuggedaboutit”. How boring. On the flip side, you can get pretty lost if you aren’t familiar with the particular slang others are using.
It’s something to think about when you’re using social media.
Just ask Former Miss Universe Alicia Machado. Fox News Latino explains.
The Venezuelan model and actress told a Mexican radio station that her twitter post in which she called for “peace between the Chinas,” referring to North and South Korea was misunderstood.
“I said it in a very colloquial way and people misunderstood me,” E!Latino reports Machado saying. “Obviously, I know there is a bombing going on between North and South Korea. When I said the ‘Chinas,’ I was referring to the Asian continent.”
I feel for Ms. Machado. She used slang that is very common in Venezuela, but because others didn’t understand, she was thought of as “dumb.”
To make matters worse, Machado had to close her Twitter account because she was being deluged with insults.
This can be a real problem for people and businesses using social media, particularly when you only have 140 characters to make a point, or when you’re posting something from your “Smart” phone.
So to save yourself from a that kind of headache, here are five tips to help you avoid those social media misunderstandings.
TONE DOWN THE SLANG
It’s really hard not to use any slang when using social media. Just make sure you’re not getting to provincial. The “slangier” you get, the better the chance you will be misunderstood and your real message will be lost.
IF IT LOOKS BAD, IT IS BAD
It’s happened to all of us. We make one innocent comment that gets taken the wrong way and we end up apologizing for years. Remember that it’s what you said that matters, not what you meant. If you see a word or phrase that you’re about to send out and you think it might be misconstrued, it will. Change it. You’ll be happy you did.
PROOFREAD YOUR PHONE POSTS
I love my smart phone. One of the best things about it is the auto-correct. Unfortunately, one of the worst things about it is, also, the auto-correct. More people have gotten into trouble by not proof-reading the stuff they send out via phone. Take a second to make sure your auto-correct hasn’t decided to sabotage you by changing “sink” into “stink” in that post you were sending about plumbers.
DON’T GET CUTE
I have always been of the opinion that everyone is smart, except for the people who try to act smart. It’s a sure way to get you into trouble. Stay away from puns or witty phrases unless you’re sure everyone will get them. Realize the people you think will get it, won’t.
TAKE A BREATH BEFORE SENDING
Don’t immediately hit send after you write something. Once you post it, it’s in the public forever. Give yourself a count of five before pushing the send button. Remember, it’s always better to reflect upon on a post you will send rather than reflecting upon a post you just sent.
Social media is a powerful tool that can help you to amplify your message. But as Ms. Machado found out, social media can also amplify mistakes and misunderstandings. Hopefully these tips will help you so that when your using social media you are able to say what you mean, and you mean what you say.
Hope that helps you out.
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